Cristina & Paul

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Our Story

2016:
First Met

Like every great love story, theirs began at a college day-drink. One perfect spring day in a muddy sorority backyard, a bright-eyed sophomore and a scrappy senior found their way together as beer pong partners. Although this is when sparks initially flew, Paul graduated from TCNJ a few weeks later, and that seemed to be the end of their story.

Fun fact: Their first pre-dating photo together (see above) was taken in Hoboken - if only these kids knew what this little city would mean to them now :)

2018:
Started Dating

After two years of secretly crushing on each other, they reconnected on Instagram in February 2018. Was it a coincidence, or strategic, that Paul sent the DM the day after Valentine’s Day? The jury is still out. There is also still debate about their official first date. Cristina says it was when Paul showed up at the Nutley Starbucks while she was doing homework. Paul insists it was the next night, when they had a properly scheduled date at Matthew’s in Clifton … after almost going to another restaurant that burned down five years earlier, oops.

Anywho, Paul popped the question (nope, not that one yet) on May 12, 2018. Shout out to the multiple friends who have this date on their calendar to remind Cristina every year. “Can’t she just add it to her calendar?” you ask. Nope, it’s become part of the plot and we should all just accept it.

2018-2023:
Long Distance Love

It was then Cristina’s turn to graduate from TCNJ, when the journey of long-distance dating began. Though they had not been dating for long and Paul was just learning the details of Cristina’s academic endeavors (jokes on him that he’d still be trying to figure it out 8 years later), he always encouraged and supported her to pursue it all. Over the next few years, Paul bopped between NJ and whichever city Cristina called home. From Boston to New Haven to Manhattan, Paul claims he was the reason she kept moving closer and closer to NJ (but we all know it was for the babies). They made the most out of long distance with weekend trips, weekly updates of woodworking projects or cafe and library discoveries, regular Facetimes during events to accommodate Cristina’s FOMO, and daily phone calls often to talk about nothing but to feel like they existed in the same place for a little while – after all, they had to get crafty with their communication to compensate for Cristina’s average response rate to texts of 3-5 business days. They also grew to love their meet-in-the-middle dates, which for three years meant driving two hours during the week just to have dinner together. (Hit them up for restaurant recs in Stamford, CT, or the random abandoned factory parking lot in Albany, NY, where Paul said ‘I love you’ for the first time). Paul especially leaned into Cristina’s love of surprises, sending flowers or dinner after a tough week, having toiletries delivered when she ran out, or arranging surprise visits with family or friends. But most importantly, despite the distance, they never stopped exploring, adventuring, and celebrating every part of life together.

2023:
Roomies

Surprises have kept coming since moving into Hoboken in 2023 and learning lots about each other in this new stage – Paul is exceptional at cooking, cleaning, scheduling, and just about any other domestic task imaginable. Cristina contributes to things that are equally as important, like their plant and book collections, inventory of Trader Joe’s snacks, and reputation for being fashionably late. They’ve brought out the best in each other as roomies. Cristina now sees some value in timers and measuring ingredients, while Paul occasionally embraces the act of winging it. Cristina has become more accepting of suburbia, while Paul has learned to tolerate and travel around the city. They’ve found ways to balance their individual passions, like Paul’s Thursday golf league becoming Cristina’s stand-in dinner dates with friends or a chance to try a new hobby. They’ve also learned new skills together, like the art of having full conversations only using quotes they have memorized from their nieces and nephews. Through this and every new chapter, however, many of the things they initially loved together have stayed the same, like trying new restaurants and wines, falling asleep on the couch, laughing until they cry, going to shows or concerts, and spending every possible moment with family and friends.

2024:
Proposal

The surprise on November 2, 2024, was the best of all, when Paul got “tickets” to see the Book of Mormon in NYC. When they arrived at the ferry early (which should have been a giveaway right then), Paul suggested walking down Pier 14 to look at the skyline. As they were taking in the twinkly skyline, Paul said that he had good news and bad news. Diving right into the bad news (nope, criminally gave no option of which news first), he said they were not going to see the Book of Mormon. Paul did not expect this news to elicit such immediate disappointment, so he quickly shared the good news that he had hoped they’d spend the rest of their lives together (hehehe, yay!). They then spent the night celebrating with family and friends from near and far in the bar where they had their first Hoboken date.

P.s. They did end up going to see the Book of Mormon months later, and it still stands as their favorite play :)

2027:
Celebration

Here they are, almost a decade later to make it all official! Why so long, you ask? Well, who can put a timeline on a fulfilling life!? Traveling, adventures, new and old hobbies, pep-talks, promotions, graduate degrees, apartments, investment properties, plant babies, and real babies – three nephews, three nieces, and another niece on the way to be exact – life has been so good and fun and joyous! And, they can’t wait to continue it all as husband and wife, starting with all of you in the Tuscan countryside.

Schedule of Celebrations

Tuesday, June 1 - Thursday, June 3, 2027

All wedding events will be held on the property of Tenuta di Artimino.

Welcome Dinner

Tuesday, June 1, 2027

Details coming soon!

Wedding Ceremony & Reception

Wednesday, June 2, 2027

Villa Medicea La Ferdinanda
Formal attire
Ceremony and reception will be outdoors and on grass
Dancing will be indoors

Pool Party

Thursday, June 3, 2027

Artimino Pool Bar & Restaurant
Casual swim attire

Drinks and lunch provided

Venue &
Accommodations

Tenuta di Artimino

Tenuta di Artimino is a wine estate that spans nearly two thousand acres of Tuscany in the city of Carmignano, about 30 minutes west of Florence. One of the reasons we fell in love with Artimino is that it feels like its own little world, with an historic villa and hotel, incredible restaurants and wine experiences, and its own bustling village all nestled among vineyards and olive groves. Between wedding events, we hope you’ll take some time to enjoy the estate, wander through the village, relax at the pool or spa, reserve a wine or pasta making experience, and soak in the views of the rolling hills.

All of our wedding events will take place on the property of Tenuta di Artimino.
All the planning and scheduling will be taken care of throughout the wedding days, allowing us to spend meaningful time together. So once you arrive at Artimino, you can settle in to enjoy a few days of stress-free fun and relaxation!

Accommodations at Artimino

Artimino has two options for accommodations on the property: 1) the hotel by the villa, or 2) the apartment complex in the village. The hotel and the apartment complex are less than a half-mile down the road from each other, reachable by a ten-minute walk or a two-minute shuttle that is running constantly.

We have a room block with special pricing and breakfast included for both the hotel and apartments through the link below.

All wedding events will take place near the hotel. But since the village is so close, we'd encourage thinking about which accommodation is most suitable for your personal arrangements and needs, rather than the events themselves.

We’d love for as many guests as possible to stay at Artimino, where all wedding events will be held, so you don’t have to think about any planning or logistics!
However, we completely understand if these accommodations are too restrictive. You are more than welcome to explore off-site options, and we are happy to help you plan these to ensure you have an enjoyable trip.

Option 1: Hotel

The hotel is central to all wedding events throughout the three days, with a one-minute walk to any location.

All hotel rooms are single-room studio units that vary in size from small (Style Room), medium (Singular Room), and large (Extra Singular Room). All hotel rooms on the booking link are indicated by “Room.”

A cot can be added to any room for an additional nightly fee (50 euros), though it may feel a bit snug in the Style Room.

Option 2: Apartments/Borgo

The apartments are located in the Artimino village, which is still on the property just 0.4 mile from the wedding events. The apartment complex has its own private entrance, pool, and spa. The small village is made up of multiple restaurants, a gelato shop, a museum, and the local residents who proudly operate these establishments and very much enjoy visitors to the property!

The apartments come in a wider variety of layouts, including larger and multi-bedroom options, and have living room and kitchen areas. All apartments on the booking link are indicated by “Borgo.”

Shuttles are provided from the apartments to the venue on the Wedding Day, and are also available within minutes upon request at any other time throughout your stay.

A cot can be added to any borgo room for an additional nightly fee (50 euros).

Breakfast is served at a restaurant across from the hotel, called Biagio Pignatta, even if you are staying at the apartments.

Booking Information

Our room block and preferred rates are available through February 28, 2027. We encourage guests to book as early as possible to ensure availability.

The room block is defaulted to Tuesday, June 1 (the day of the welcome party) to Friday, June 4 (the day after the pool party).

Adjustments to your accommodations are easily doable! You can extend or shorten your stay, or request another type of room at Artimino that is not listed on our booking link below. To make adjustments while maintaining the special rates, email your plans to the Artimino team (wedding.mc.artimino@melia.com) and they are happy to assist. There is another wedding at Artimino the weekend before ours, so if you're planning to arrive before June 1, we recommend booking sooner than later.

You're welcome to use our room block (below), book directly through Artimino, or use a third-party website -- choose whichever method gives you the best perks and prices. Please note that rooms are nonrefundable when booking through our wedding link. This is pretty common for winery resorts abroad, but you may be able to find refundable options through other booking avenues. We recommend creating a free Meliá account before booking, so you can earn points toward your stay.

Travel Info

Here you will find lots of details and guidance around traveling to Tenuta di Artimino.

General info for traveling around Italy coming soon!

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I RSVP?

Please RSVP through the button below, or go to the RSVP tab above. If you run into any issues with the online RSVP, please let us know asap!

Can you tell me about the accommodations at Artimino? What’s the difference between the hotel and the apartments?

We’d love for as many guests as possible to stay at Artimino, where all wedding events will be held so you don’t have to think about any planning or logistics! Artimino has a hotel and apartments that are a half-mile down the road from each other (reachable by foot or shuttle). The hotel is adjacent to the wedding villa, main pool, and a couple restaurants. The apartments are in its own little village with a pool, restaurants, gelato shop, and spa. The apartments have more options of room sizes and styles, including multi-room units, while the hotel has only single-room units that vary by size. Shuttles run constantly, are available within minutes upon request at any time, and will be even more frequent on the Wedding Day so you don't have to walk while you are all dolled up.

We have a room block with special pricing and breakfast included for both the hotel and apartments (see Venue & Accommodations). Please note that booking through the room block is non-refundable. You are more than welcome to book through the direct Artimino website or third party sites, if that works better for you!

More detailed information is provided on the Venue & Accommodations tab below. Please reach out with any questions or concerns!

Can I come early, stay longer, or shorten my stay at Artimino?

Yes, to all three! The default accommodations that you’ll see on our booking link are from Tuesday, June 1, to Friday, June 4. If you’d like to adjust this in any way (e.g., lengthening or shortening your stay), feel free to email the Artimino team at wedding.mc.artimino@melia.com. Just indicate the dates you’d like to stay, and they will handle it from there.

If looking to stay longer (and booking through Artimino rather than a third party site), our discounted wedding rates apply to the additional dates!

What’s the best way to get to Artimino?

There are many ways! If coming from the U.S., you can fly direct into Rome then take the high-speed train to Florence. Alternatively, you can fly somewhere else in Europe for a pre-wedding trip, then take another flight straight to Florence. Artimino is a 30-minute drive from the Florence train station, and there are a couple options for this part of the trip. Another option is to fly into Rome, and drive straight up to Artimino (scheduling a driver in advance is recommended).

For those who are itching to spend more time in Italy, we recommend allocating a couple extra days in Rome or Florence along your travels.

We have put together lots of detailed info on getting to Artimino to help make your planning and traveling as smooth and easy as possible. Click below for a few options.

Do I have a plus one?

We love and appreciate all of you so much, but due to the size and capacity of our venue, we’re sadly unable to accommodate additional plus ones.

Are kids welcome?

Although we adore your little ones a ton, our wedding celebrations will be adults only, with the exception of children in our close family. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out! There are other options for those traveling with little ones, and we are happy to help you figure out the best plan to ensure you are able to join us!

Do I have to rent a car? If I did, is there parking at Artimino?

If you are staying at Artimino, we do not recommend renting a car. All wedding events will take place on the property and everything is reachable by foot or the on-property shuttle, so the car is really not needed.

If you are not staying at Artimino, then it may be worthwhile to rent a car to be able to get back and forth for the wedding events. However, the roads are quite steep and windy, so we wouldn’t recommend trying to drive in Italy if you haven’t done so before. And we highly discourage it if you plan to drink at any of the events – we won’t let you behind the wheel! And one last note, automatic transmission cars and bigger trucks are limited, so we recommend booking a car a few weeks in advance.

Yes, there is parking available on the property for guests who rent a car. But, again, if you are staying on the property, you probably don’t need it!

Are there any important driving considerations?

Italy legally requires that you carry an International Driving Permit (IDP) along with your regular provincial or state driver’s license. It’s a simple document that translates your license information and may be requested by rental agencies or local authorities. It can be acquired through any AAA office. All that is needed is to fill out a one-page form and a valid driver’s license. AAA will take care of the photo requirement for the IDP.

Also, be on the lookout for ZTLs (Zona a Traffico Limatato)! These are restricted areas, where vehicle access is limited to residents, authorized vehicles, taxis, etc. Some ZTLs operate only during certain times of day, while others may be active 24/7. ZTLs are enforced by cameras, not gates or checkpoints. If you drive into a ZTL without authorization, your license plate is automatically recorded and a fine may be issued (we know from experience -- we got 3 tickets during our last trip to Italy).

If I have an emergency while in Italy, what do I do?

Italian emergency numbers:
112 for General Emergencies
113 for National Police/Polizia
115 for Italian Fire Brigade
118 for health emergencies

Once you've called an official number, please tell us what's going on! Cristina isn't one of "those" doctors, but we can reach out to our contacts in Italy for additional help.

Always have ID on you – you may be asked to show it if dealing with a public officer.

If calling the United States while in Italy, dial 001 + area code + phone number.

I have additional questions. What should I do?

Contact us for anything! Emailing us at cristinaandpaul2@gmail.com, or text/call us at 201-889-7962 (Cristina) or 201-452-7160 (Paul).

With Love

We are so thankful to everyone traveling to celebrate with us in Italy. Having you there truly means the world to us. For those who insist on giving further, we would be grateful for your contribution to our honeymoon fund that will kick off our married life together. But please know that your love and company are more than enough!

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